The Stories That Shape Us

From the moment we are born, we are surrounded by the stories of others – our family, friends, and even strangers. These stories, from  joyful to sad, influence our own lives and contribute to who we become.

One such writing about people that captures the essence of this interconnectedness is a memoir by Larry Laverentz,”The Not So Ordinary People on the Roads I’ve Traveled.” In his book Laverentz

shares the story of his own life journey, intertwined with the stories of the not so ordinary people he encountered in his life. Larry interacted with a myriad of people from diverse backgrounds, beliefs, ages, cultures and professions. From growing up on a Kansas farm he learned from his parents and neighbors the importance of responsibility and helping others. By going to Vietnam after college graduation  in the 1960s, initially as an agricultural volunteer and subsequently to work in the Pacification Program, a new world of people, cultures and experiences opened up.  After Vietnam family and work in this country added to his life’s chapters with new acquaintances, experiences  and responsibilities. Jobs ranged from administering federal refugee resettlement programs to real estate sales.

In his writing Laverentz offers readers a glimpse into his world – the joys, sorrows, regrets and the moments of profound insight. But more than that, he introduces us to the individuals who left an indelible mark on his life,  His writing includes information about the character and accomplishments of his subjects.  He cites integrity, humility and a sense of humor as common idividual qualities. It’s a good model  to follow.

The book illustrates that reflection and learning are life-time endeavors. In a changing world it is significant for a writer to provide a sense of history that can be passed on to future generations. Think about family members and other people in your life and the stories they carry with them. Each person you meet has a unique journey, filled with accomplishments, challenges, regrets and even moments of enlightenment. And somehow, their stories become connected with our own, leaving an indelible mark on who we are and who we become.  Not all stories or writings need to be dramatic.  Routine things of one generation may seem strange or interesting in a generation or two later.

So as you reflect on the stories that have shaped your own life, consider the impact that others have had on your journey. And, if you are looking for a captivating read that celebrates the interconnectedness of our stories, we urge you to pick up a copy of Larry Laverentz’s book, “The Not So Ordinary People on the Roads I’ve Traveled.”